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Friday, December 19, 2003
Experience Means Baggage
...and having no experience qualifies you to write about it. We're talking our gal Amber again, who is a boundless source of unqualified offerings, suspect facts, and bizarre assertions. The best way to read Amber is in bite-sized chunks (the better not to choke on) so prepare to be dazzled:
...when it comes to dating and sex, experience doesn't mean wisdom. It means baggage.
The biggest way this materializes itself is a typical liberal belief that one needs excessive sexual experience to... erm, "get good at it." Public schools now teach every and all sexual acts, from anal sex to S&M sex. Liberals perpetuate the lie that a person must experiment in sex to decide what they really like, otherwise they might end up in a tyrannical, unhappy marriage, where -- god forbid -- their lover can't please them!
Nevermind that along with all this "wisdom" comes potential STDs, pregnancy, and emotional damage. We need that experience!
Actually, if you were to go ask any person about their favorite sexual experience, my guess is that very few people will describe a lover who really wowed them through some wild, mechanical act. My guess is they will describe being with a person whom they greatly admired, were intimate with, and it was not their moves they responded to but their intellectual and moral character.
[snip]
Dating is not supposed to be something you get good at. Not if the fundamental goal is one lifelong husband and wife relationship. Dating is supposed to be a temporary process, not something one should master. If you find that person right away, awesome. If not, keep looking. But going in and out of relationships, sleeping with multiple people is not going to help you gain experience for that one person. It's just going to cause baggage. Let's state the real reason people date and have sex for marriage: it's for entertainment not experience.
[snip]
If you have ever noticed, many women who have been with mounds of men tend to turn their backs on men. The only thing going from guy to guy does is damage them. If they were really promiscuous, they often become lesbians. On the other hand, it is modest girls with few sexual experiences who still remain unabashed romantics and are completely starry-eyed over men.
[snip]
The primary preparation you should do before marriage is not experimental but theoretical. It is the difference between getting a map out and plotting your drive versus just getting on the road, getting lost, then finding your way around. Going mindlessly into a situation, in order to supposedly gain "experience" is called pragmaticism..
One can only stand back and marvel....but I guess this answers the age old question of why men are so interested in lesbian sex. It's because the women were previously "promiscuous". I guess guys are just looking for a woman they used to "know"...
Bonus reading...read about the kind of guy Amber likes.
It's car-wreck good.
(Thanks to Todd for the Baggage link)
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